who chooses the porn? This is a tricky point we have come to. You select the site, it is up to me then to choose the porn. Here is where we find out most about each other. Here is where our differences are underlined. I could pick the clips that you would watch from the thumbnail photos of them. Perhaps you could click on my preferences without much thought. Anal sex, the double penetration, fisting, if it comes to that, the body, opening to another, the body swallowing more than it could handle. Perhaps you judge me badly for the extremes of my taste as I know and judge you for the things you will choose. I do not share your passions or perversions. I will try them. I am easily pleased when it comes down to it. But there is a rift, and I am aware of it. Perhaps this is a fundamental fissure in something that is firm and unshakable.

Still, I will watch your pornography and you will watch mine. I will come while watching yours. You will come while watching mine. This is the thing about relationships. The subtle give and take.